Attraction vs Affection

Most men confuse Attraction with Affection. They intuitively know Affection is something you must EARN. But they don’t know how to get Attraction to work for them.

Attraction is an automatic response. Attraction is created just like in the market place of products. If a product is rare… it’s attractive. If a product is shiny, new, clean, desired by others… it’s attractive.

If you are too eager to meet and be with a sexy love woman, you are communicating that YOU are “on sale.” “Sale” items are not treasured. “Sale” items are in abundance. If you want to work the ATTRACTION model… don’t be “on sale”. With that thought in mind the following idea will make perfect sense. Don't tell a good-looking woman how hot she is, how pretty she is, how beautiful she is, or how sexy she is. She's heard it all a thousand times before. It will not make her feel attracted to you.

If you tell an average woman, she’s beautiful, she will feel attracted to you. She has not heard that message a thousand times before. To make a sexy love woman feel love to you, you must come across as RARE. We are attracted to rare gemstones… rare cars… rare flowers, etc. If what you communicate to a woman is RARE, her interest sparks.

If she’s in a class of Beethoven music lovers, she can only stand so much talk about him. If you come along and you’re the expert in Mozart, suddenly, you’re RARE. If most of the folks she knows are serious (and being serious is so damn easy) then she is to someone who has a sexy sense of humor.

But the single most important thing a man can do to make himself attractive to the opposite sex is this: A man should demonstrate to a woman he is interested in her as a person... and...convince her of this (no matter how long it takes)... before... he makes any kind of sexual move whatsoever.

Shy Man illusion

The Odds Are Slim of a Sexy Love Woman Being Interested And Attracted to Me

This is the guy that has fixed opinions about himself and makes up excuses such as, "I'm not very lucky with sexy love women" or "I just don't stand a chance of picking up a woman" or "There aren't any good nightclubs where I can meet women." These are just defensive statements to avoid placing the blame where it really belongs and that's on yourself. You just haven't tried hard enough to pick up a woman. That's where the real problem lies. Make it a point to block these beliefs out of your mind because they will hinder you from seeking out women using your own initiative.

If I Stand Around Long Enough, Maybe Something Will Happen

Nothing could be farther from the truth. Waiting around for something to happen will most likely accomplish nothing. This will produce little action, if any at all. I just can't tell you how many nights I've wasted at nightclubs waiting for something to happen, that is until I wised up. If you wait for a sexy love woman to approach you and strike up a conversation, you'll be waiting all night. You have got to take the initiative and create your own action, it's not going to come to you out of the clear blue sky.

Most Guys Are Lucky That Pick Up sexy love Women

This is a very mistaken notion that picking up sexy love women happens to other guys because of luck and good breaks. Picking up or meeting a sexy love woman rarely happens just by accident. Somebody has to take that first step to initiate contact with a sexy love woman. The only difference between you and the other guy is he takes action, not because of a stroke of luck. So remember, you must go out and initiate action. You must make the effort to pick up sexy love women.

If A Sexy Love Woman Doesn't Show She Likes Me Right Away, She Really Doesn't Like Me And Will Never Like Me

This is an unproductive belief that a sexy love woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest in you by verbal and non-verbal communication. This is perfect example of this misconception: You ask a sexy love woman to dance and she readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another guys invitation to dance. You get all upset and say to yourself, "If she was really interested in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her." What this guy doesn't know is that in the majority of cases like this, is that when interest is not immediately shown to the other, this doesn't mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there. So, don't give up on a sexy love woman if she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her. In conclusion, it is rare when woman will show her liking and interest in you following a brief initial meeting. Prolonged communication and conversation are necessary before she can feel comfortable in showing her interest in you.

If You're Going to Make It With a sexy love Woman, You'll Both Know It When You Meet And There Won't Be Any Problem

This is the guy who is waiting for "love at first sight" to occur to initiate a relationship. Upon meeting a sexy love woman, if there are no vibrations or chemistry between them, he simply dismisses the encounter. He uses this as a defensive excuse for initiating any intimate contact with sexy love women. Waiting for "love at first sight" will prevent you from establishing real friendships with the opposite sex out of casual acquaintances. You don't have to be madly in love with a sexy woman to show interest and concern and to establish a friendly rapport.